May the illustration of these behaviors help to bring about a deeper understanding of love in your life.

1.  Blaming another for one’s unhappiness
2.  Chaos Creation creates distance from one’s partner
3.  Demanding, versus asking, forces control in the relationship
4.  Derailing creates irrelevant side issues, avoiding the first subject
5.  Dictating how another feels is controlling rather than loving
6.
Leveraging one’s needs against a partner’s love is Emotional Blackmail 

7. Using jokes to avoid genuine conversation is known as Humor
8. Telling another how much more you know than they do -
Knowledge as Power

9. Assuming one’s partner will meet your needs without asking is Mind Reading
10. Bringing up multiple issues confuses one’s partner and is known as Multiplying

 

What Are Unloving Behaviors?

These behaviors are based in fear, rather than love. When these behaviors are present it creates hurt and distance between two people.

Understanding as to when one is the giver of unloving behaviors, the receiver (or possibly both) helps couples to move from fearful reactions to loving responses.


It begins by understanding how behaviors we thought were acceptable can create walls that stop us from receiving what we desire most from our relationships, and that is love.

Finding Relationship Happiness

The 30 minute DVD/CD combination was created to provide an understanding of Unloving Behaviors. Most importantly the listener is provided with specific ways to stop the unloving behaviors in a loving way.

This relationship package was created to help any person respond in a loving way to unloving behaviors whether they are occurring in a personal or business environment.

These behaviors are brought to life from Chapters 5 and 6 of the book, "Is Anyone Awake Out There?"

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